✷ Meet Fitch ✷


The Outsiders’ Coach

Magic exists on the fringe. The place where your breath catches, where a wild dream appears, where the rules lessen and the possibilities thrive–this is where I’ve built my work. I’m a queer artist who came to coaching by making art with groups of magical weirdos. Art taught me how to speak my truth. Sharing my truth by sharing my art and telling my story, is how I began to heal my trauma, chronic illness, and self-doubt.

I learned that creativity is the safest place to face our deepest fears. And facing fears together is the surest way to begin to change. I became a coach to work this process of change with other people, so that anyone who longs to become themselves more truthfully–to know what it feels like to trust themselves completely–could know that there is a way.

My core work and mission is creating a culture of permission. When we have permission to be who we actually are, not who we think we’re supposed to be, we can end the fight with ourselves. Each time we release the burden of self-restriction we free up energy for the work and play of living. This sweet spot is where deep transformation and powerful change begins ✨ This is where I meet you, my clients. Gently, and powerfully, we walk the path together.

WORK WITH ME

✦ Guiding Questions at FWC ✦

What thrives when I pursue my genuine curiosity?

What are my honest conditions for change?

What would I do if I wasn’t afraid?

My commitment to you

I will meet you wherever you are in your process. The work will be fierce, actionable, and sustainable. There is no question too deep, or path too wild. We are here for whatever truly works for you.

DIVE IN

My Background

Fitch Wilder, ACC (they/them) is an ICF Associate Certified Coach and a Certified Martha Beck Life Coach. Their approach is radically intersectional, deeply compassionate and includes mind-body coaching, thought work, The Work of Byron Katie, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, metaphor work, dream analysis, and parts work. View Fitch’s certificate here.

Fitch worked as a performance artist in Brooklyn, NY for over ten years. In addition to their extensive arts and coaching background, they trained in Conscious Communication with Lyndsey Harrington, and in Focusing-Oriented Expressive Arts Therapy with Laury Rappaport.

Fitch has their Bachelor of Arts from CUNY Hunter College in Fine Art and Gender & Sexuality Studies.

Specialties & Areas of Focus

✰ Artists/Creatives

✰ Entrepreneurs/Business Owners

✰ LGBTQIA+ community members

✰ Parents/Caregivers (esp. of queer kids)

✰ Building self-trust and confidence

✰ Queer youth, teens, and students

✰ Survivors of sexual assault

✰ Anti-racist/anti-capitalist recovery work

✰ Adults with ADHD

✰ Decision making for the indecisive

NEW CLIENT APPLICATION

  • "Fitch possesses an exceptional talent for perceiving the broader context behind the words shared… I enthusiastically recommend their services, particularly for individuals seeking to navigate themselves out of patriarchal societal conditioning."

    –Issa M.

  • "Working with Fitch helped me define boundaries, make hard decisions with pride, and stand firmly in my truth without self-judgment. My creative, professional, and personal practices have all benefitted from working with them.”

    –Phoebe S.

  • “I confronted my deepest struggles around sharing my work with the outside world, overcoming some of my most challenging, and subjectively daring, hurdles. None of this would be possible had I not been shown the genuine time, compassion, investment, and belief in my work that Fitch has shown me.”

    –Jeramiah C.

  • “I came into the cozy, soft space feeling confused and stuck, and left feeling like I had clarity and a clear plan. Fitch made space for all of my emotion, and asked questions that guided me with grace and non-judgment. I can’t recommend Fitch enough.”

    –Sarah B

  • “Fitch gave me bite sized ideas to take small steps in the direction I want to go. I would highly recommend them to anyone looking to take positive, authentic steps in their lives and develop deeper self understanding and compassion.”

    –Rachel G.

  • “If you want to feel completely comfortable to explore your deepest truths with a coach that is heart centered, open, intuitive, and exquisitely sassy then Fitch is your coach! Our sessions leave me feeling more confident and capable than ever to trust myself and navigate my life with both boldness and grace.”

    –Lauren S.